| Humility-Pride | ||||||||||||||||||||||
| by Doug Reese TTNL | ||||||||||||||||||||||
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| Kip Keino, was an uncoached Nandi tribesman from Kenya who gave one of the gutsiest performances in athletic history. Keino burst into the world of track and field in October of 1968 at the Summer Olympics in Mexico City with very little athletic experience. | ||||||||||||||||||||||
| Keino suffered from gallstones, and doctors told him if he ran it might kill him. In his first event, the 10,000 meters, he was in the lead pack with two laps to go when he collapsed in pain and staggered onto the infield. Before the stretcher arrived, he scrambled to his feet and finished the race even though he had been disqualified. In the 5,000 meters four days later, he won the silver.
It was in the 1,500 meter showdown with world record holder Jim Ryun that Keino's story became a legend. Suffering agonizing pain, he finally conceded to the doctor's orders and remained in the Olympic village on race day. But as the start of the race drew near, Keino became restless and boarded a bus to head to the Olympic stadium, only to get stuck in a traffic jam. Keino jogged the final two miles to the stadium, arriving only moments before the race. Keino went out fast to neutralize Ryun's famous finishing kick. Ryun in the midst of a three year undefeated win streak finished 20 meters behind Keino. In just a week Kip Keino went from a talented runner, to a national hero. In 1972, Keino followed up his previous Olympic performance with a gold in the steeplechase and a silver in 1,500 meters in the Munich Olympics. After his Olympic triumphs, Kip Keino could have chosen to live a life of leisure and luxury. Instead, he and his wife Phyllis have put their time, energy, and financial resources into providing a home for abandoned children in Eldoret, Kenya. Their goal was to create a home for 25 children; today they have 86, and they always have room for one more abused or abandoned child. Keino wears the role of national hero lightly. In his battered Jeep, Keino bumps past the stadium and streets named after him without acknowledging their existence. Keino whose mother died when he was three, says, "I don't want anyone else to grow up with that problem. I can't help everyone, but I do what is within my ability. While I am here, I should be mindful of those people who need help. They need food. They need clothing. They need shelter. They need love." Keino's Olympic glory made him one of the most recognizable faces in sub-Saharan Africa. But despite his fame, Keino always remained humble and has used his fortune to help others. In a world dominated by "me-first" athletes, Keino and his wife Phyllis have shown grace, selflessness, and a heartfelt devotion to others can accomplish great things. |
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| Athletic Principle
When the legendary Knute Rockne was the head football coach at Notre Dame, a column appeared in the schools newspaper with absolutely no clue as to who wrote the article other than the signature, "Old Bearskin." |
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| The column was highly critical of the football players. Its author seemed to have inside information on the strengths and weaknesses of every man on the team. The author spared no words in ripping each player for his shortcomings and inept performance.
When the players complained to Rockne about the severe criticism they received, Rock would just sympathize with them and encourage them to get out there and do better the next time. The author of that column was never identified - that is, until Rockne died. And guess what? The column died with him! "Old Bearskin" was actually the players' best friend. He was aware of what happened to football heroes whose success on the field went to their heads. As "Old Bearskin," his criticism helped them avoid the pitfalls of pride and to strive continually to do better. Don't be confused. Pride has two very different meanings in sport. On the positive side, pride is believing in yourself. It is never giving up no matter what the situation. Such belief drives champions to near perfection. This type of pride is developed when you leave all you have at a practice and a competition. It is giving all you have. The negative element is pride unbridled. It is a wicked creation. It is a belief that you are more important than other teammates. It is when your ego grows, and your head gets too big. It screams out, "Look at me!" It is running to read yourr own press clippings to see how great you really are. It is wanting to be first in line, wanting to be recognized, while looking down on others. John Wooden, the most successful basketball coach ever, led the UCLA Bruins to ten NCAA National Championships in twelve years. One time when Wooden called on another basketball coach he said, "Hello. My name is John Wooden. I understand your little school needs a coach, and I have a man in mind I would like to recommend." Wooden continued, "I've had a couple of years coaching basketball, and I thought you might like to take a recommendation I have." A couple of years of coaching basketball! Wooden set the standard, then wrote a book on the subject. Isn't it refreshing that John Wooden didn't assume the man knew his voice or was impressed with his name! That is humility! God's Performance Principle The Bible, God's Playbook has a lot to say about humility/pride, so it must be important! Nothing is more distasteful to God than self-conceit. The first and fundamental sin aims at putting ourselves on the throne at the expense of God. Bob Zuppke, a famous football coach at the University of Illinois, once said, "Two forces are at war in every fighter, the ego and the goal. An overdose of self-love (pride), coddling of the ego (self), makes bums of men who ought to be champions. Forgetfulness of self, complete absorption in the goal, often makes champions out of bums." We become a "bum" when we try to take the throne from its rightful owner. God is a jealous God. He wants to be put first in our lives, but when we are full of ourselves we kick him off his rightful spot. Our goal then is to live a life of humility and to honor God. What is the danger of pride? |
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| "Pride goes before destruction, and haughtiness before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18). | ||||||||||||||||||||||
| Proud athletes and coaches take little account of their weaknesses and do not anticipate stumbling blocks. Too often they think they are above the frailites of "average" people. In this state of mind they are easily tripped up. Ironically, proud people seldom realize that pride is their problem - although everyone around them is well aware of it. Ask someone you trust whether self-satisfaction is blinding you of the warning signs. A good friend may just help you avoid a fall.
The apostle Paul gives us a good idea how we should live our lives to keep pride at a distance: |
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| "Don't be selfish; don't live to make a good impression on others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourself. Don't think only about your own affairs, but be interested in others, too, and what they are doing" (Philippians 2:3). | ||||||||||||||||||||||
| Selfishness - pride, can ruin an athletic team, but genuine humility can build it up. Being humble involves having a true perspective about ourselves. It does not mean that we should put ourselves down. Before God, we are sinners, saved only by God's grace, but we are saved and therefore have great worth in God's eyes. We are to lay aside selfishness and treat others with respect and common courtesy. Considering others interests as more important than our own links us with Christ who was a true example of humility.
Peter steps up to the plate and has this to say on the subject: |
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| "...serve each other in humility, for 'God set himself against the proud, but he shows favor to the humble.' So handle yourself under the mighty power of God, and in his good time he will honor you" (1 Peter 5:5-6). | ||||||||||||||||||||||
| Too often as athletes and coaches, we worry about our postion and status, hoping that we get our proper recognition for what we accomplish. But Peter advises us to remember that God's recognition counts more than human praise. God is able and willing to bless us according to his timing. Humbly obey God regardless of present circumstances, and in his good time - either in this life or in the next - he will honor you.
James has the last comment on the kind of athlete and coach God desires you to be: |
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| "God sets himself against the proud, but he shows favor to the humble. So humble yourselves before God, Resist the Devil, and he will fledd from you...Draw close to God, and God will draw close to your. When you bow down before the Lord and admit your dependence on him, he will lift you up and give you honor" (James 4:6-10) | ||||||||||||||||||||||
| Pride makes us self-centered and leads us to conclude that we deserve all we can see, touch or imagine. It creates greedy appetites for far more than we need. We can be released from our self-centered desires by humbling ourselves before God, realizing that all we really need is his approval.
Bowing down before the Lord means recognizing that our worth comes from God alone. To be humble involves leaning on his power and his guidance, and not going our own way. Although we do not deserve God's favor, he wants to lift us up and give us worth and dignity, despite all of our shortcomings. |
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| "Pride leads to disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom" (Proverbs 11:2).
"Fear of the Lord teaches a person to be wise; humility precedes honor" (Proverbs 15:33). "The Lord mocks at mockers, but shows favor to the humble" (Proverbs 3:34). |
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| Copyright (c) 2001, TTNL Reprinted with permission. | ||||||||||||||||||||||